Change

Human beings do not change. We merely grow. This growth can be positive, as in a habit becoming a strength, or negative, as in a foible becoming a vice. We can put on layers and layers of such makeovers, but the thing that defines each of us remains unchanged.

Try as we can, we will not be able to mask the core of what defines us. We can try to disguise it through good habits. We can let it go wild with no care in the world. But it won't change.

When is this core defined? I don't know.

How to know what that core is? Just close your eyes, sit quietly for 10-15 minutes and ask yourself the same question.